If you are acutely dissatisfied with the quality of your life, I recommend getting some professional help. There are plenty of effective psychiatrists and clinical psychologists available. Your initial task is just to find someone well-qualified to work with you with whom you find it easy to establish rapport.
If you are normally dissatisfied with the quality of your life, I recommend reading all the free material that is available on this site. Why not serve as your own consulting philosopher? Use the self-examination questionnaire to help identify areas where you need to improve.
For more on these ideas, I recommend watching the 4 minute video on the homepage.
If your primary concern is emotional, I encourage you to consider my short book Emotional Facelift. (It’s available here as an e-book for under $5. It’s also available here as a paperback for under $7.) It clearly explains the structure of emotions and which concrete practices work and don’t work for dissolving unwanted emotions such as fear, anger, and loneliness.
Here’s a video that you may find helpful:
If your primary concern is other than emotional, the problem is likely to be that your life is unbalanced (off-center). The simple, but not easy, cure for an unbalanced life is to re-balance it. If that interests you, the easiest and clearest book of mine about re-balancing is available here as an e-book for under $5. It’s also available here as a paperback for under $10.)
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Tom R., Albany, NY: “Dennis’s insights and guidance have helped me transcend what could be a very painful, distressing, and challenging time of my life into a period of healing, growth, and tranquility.”
Especially if you are a North American, what you may need the most help with is “spiritual well-being.” For a short introduction to that topic, I recommend my The Three Things the Rest of Us Should Know about Zen Training. It’s available here for just $2.99 as an e-book. I also recommend without reservation the books and audio/CD trainings of Eckhart Tolle, who I judge to be the best spiritual teacher of our age.